How to deal if my partner joins the military?

My partner of two years has decided that they want to join the military. This terrifies me. I am so afraid of the fact that she will be serving in the military and that we won't be able to have a normal relationship until she gets out. As a single female will she be allowed to live off base? Or will she be required to live on base? Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to cope if indeed she does join the military?How to deal if my partner joins the military?Don't ask don't tell means don't tell and don't let on. She will be required to live in the barracks too, until she is an NCO (Petty Officer in the Navy). If you hang around the barracks all the time, somebody will figure out what is going on and that could eb bad, even if they aren't allowed to investigate. She probably won't even get her own room, you know. They usually put all the women together in the same building in two-person dorm rooms.How to deal if my partner joins the military?She can't join the military we have the DADT policy to keep homosexuals out!! No she would not be allowed to live off base she would have barracks and probably find some dude to hook up with. If she does join then just say goodbye cause if she stays a lesbian she will get booted out of the military and have her life ruined (Ask Choi he will tell you that we don't want homosexuals in the military) or she will get a few beers in her at a party and hook up with half the guys in the barracks.